This is the lwip no-os version of SO_REUSEADDR, which is set on all
listening sockets in the espressif port; do so here as well,
it makes running servers easier. The "address in use" error does
not occur.
Foamyguy discovered that trying to send >2920 bytes at once consistently
failed. I further discovered that sometimes trying to send >1460 bytes
would fail too. By "fail", I mean that it would take a very long time
(around 200 * 50ms) before erroneously reporting that all bytes were
written.
In my testing, this change causes larger writes to successfully
send either 2920 or 1460 bytes (possibly after doing some 50ms waits
for a previous packet to clear).
The documentation of socket.send always stated that it COULD send fewer
bytes than requested, but adafruit_httpserver assumed that the number
of requested bytes were always sent, so after this change alone,
adafruit_httpserver will still not work properly.
Closes: #7077 (albeit fixes are needed in adafruit_httpserver too)
